Relationship With Parents

Never be disrespectful to parents. Do not say a harsh word to them.

Even whether parents are unfair, it is not legal for kids to ill-treat, contravene or displease them.

Obey them in all legal things. If they instruct you to do whatever which is unlawful in the Sharee'ah , thereafter respectfully and with honor and apology decline. Never refuse rudely nor contend with them.

When parents insult, scold or even defeat their kids, they must surrender to such coverage with humility. Never must they utter a word of disrespect or complaint, nor must they exhibit on their faces any indication of sicken or anger. Bear their coverage in quieten and with patience. Make du'aa for them.

Assist them in all legal ways even whether they befall to be non-Muslims.

Whenever you perceive them, greet them.

If you are alive with them, take their consent ago headed anywhere. Inform them of your whereabouts.

If you are busied in Nafl Salaat  and your parents call you, breach your Salaat and react their call, even whether there is no urgency or importance in their call. If you are performing Fardh Salaat  and you detect urgency in their call, then break even the Fardh Salaat  to react their call.

Do not call them on their names. Address them with a name of honor and honour.

After mortality, produce du'aa of forgiveness for them. Pray for their forgiveness and within your mechanism, practice virtuous deeds with the intention of the thawaab thereof being awarded on them by Allah .

Pay the debts of your parents.

If they had prepared any lawful wasiyyat  (bequest), fulfil it whether you are via the means to do so.

Be manner, respectful and useful to the guys of your parents.

When entering the private room of parents, search their consent before entering.

Always be cheerful in their presence.

Speak kindly and tenderly with them.

When addressing parents, retain your look low. Do not stare them in the face.

Do not lift your voice above the voices of your parents.

Be humble in their presence.

When accompanying parents on a walk, do not walk in front of them nor on the right or retired side. Walk slightly behind them.

Even in their absence, pronounce highly and respectfully of them.

Do not give preference to the wife across them (this does not appeal to the rights of the wife. Where parents instruct their son to violate or discard the obligatory rights of his wife, it cannot be permissible to comply them in this case.)

Always endeavour to retain them happy.

Do not get on on a travel without their permission.

When they doubt you, do not inconvenience them via delaying your reply.

It is highly disrespectful to refrain from reacting them.

If at any time you were disrespectful to your parents, regret your movement and hasten to receive their pardon.